Episodes

Hold Your Partner Down. Don't Hold Them Up.
22
Jan. 6, 2022

Hold Your Partner Down. Don't Hold Them Up.

In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? We are talking about couples that have mastered their finances. Lolo and Zakiya and Jayla and Anthony Henry. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. Our one friend thinks that her friend's husband is treating her more like a sugar momma than a wife. Our other friend has a friend that is making her second guess how she and her husband handle their household...
Best of Season 1
56
July 29, 2021

Best of Season 1

Here are some "Lets Talk Through it" discussions from a few of your favorite episodes from season 1 of Oh That's Deep, Black Women Conversations. Enjoy! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Got Fibroids?
55
July 22, 2021

Got Fibroids?

This week we discuss Fibroid Awareness Month. In our opening chatter we discuss our whirlwind of a week. From injuries to houses being wrecked, we had a week! What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss Fibroids with Nicole (Dr. Plenty). What are fibroids? What are treatment options for fibroids? Common fibroid myths. Talking to the doctor about fibroids. We cover it all! For our Let’s Talk Through It segment we have letters from two of our friends. Both friends are struggling with fibroids and c...
Wealthy on the Moon
54
July 15, 2021

Wealthy on the Moon

This week we discuss the Billionaire Blastoff. In our opening chatter we discuss some tantalizing treats. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss how "Whitey On the Moon" a spoken word poem by Gil Scott-Heron and released in 1970, still rings true today. With Sir Richard Branson completing his first launch, Elon Musk Leading the race and Jeff Bezos close on his heels, the billionaire space race is dominating the news. This expensive yet lucrative billionaire hobby just seems inconsequential in th...
Facts Not Feelings
53
July 8, 2021

Facts Not Feelings

This week we discuss Bill Cosby's overturned conviction. In our opening chatter we discuss our 4th of July weekend. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss the reason Bill Cosby was released from prison without serving his full sentence. We’re also joined by actor Carl Anthony Payne II (Cockroach from the Cosby Show). For our Let’s Talk Through It segment we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who is torn because her husband was accused of domestic abuse. Our other friend is trying ...
It's Just Sex
52
July 1, 2021

It's Just Sex

This week we discuss good lovin'!!!! In our opening chatter we discuss our new discoveries on Apple TV and TikTok . What’s on Our Timeline? Jazmine Sullivan asked a question that broke the internet. The Question: What is the craziest thing you've ever done for someone with great sex? " For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend has a friend who is crazy about a man who is no good for her. Our other friend is trying not to go bankrupt because of her boyf...
A Brood of Babies
51
June 24, 2021

A Brood of Babies

This week ask ourselves...How many babies is too many babies?!?! In our opening chatter we discuss this past Father's Day. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss Nick Cannon having baby number 7 on the way. We also ponder if there is a socially acceptable number of babies? Or, is there a socially acceptable number of baby mommas/ daddies? For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who doesn't want her sister to be with a man that has so many children. Our ot...
Fatherless Father’s Day
50
June 17, 2021

Fatherless Father’s Day

This week we discuss Father’s Day! In our opening chatter we discuss how things have picked up and our crazy work schedules. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss retailers giving their customers the option to opt out of Father’s Day email marketing. We’re also joined by author of Faith For The Fatherless, Alvianne Brule. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who's frustrated by the way her husband celebrates Father’s Day. Our other friend is trying to...
Hey, My Sweet Babies...
49
June 10, 2021

Hey, My Sweet Babies...

This week we discuss wearing your bonnets in public. In our opening chatter we discuss the terrible twos and Janine's BFF's return from deployment! What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss Monique's comment about young girls wearing bonnets, pjs and slippers in public. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend who's daughter was asked to remove her bonnet at school. And we have a male friend who wants his wife to dress more presentable when she's going out. Be s...
He Said Yes!
48
June 3, 2021

He Said Yes!

This week we discuss women popping the question. In our opening chatter we discuss Harrison’s birthday party! What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss the new trend of women proposing to men outside of Leap Day. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is three months pregnant and wants to propose to her boyfriend who doesn’t know she’s pregnant. Our other friend wants to propose to her boyfriend after turning him down three times. Be sure to listen to hear wha...
Meditate and Masturbate
47
May 27, 2021

Meditate and Masturbate

This week we discuss National Masturbation Month. In our opening chatter we discuss our week and the precautions that we are still taking even though outside is open. . What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss how couples are having sex less... but they're masturbating more. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is faking it . Our other friend wants to get into tandem masturbation. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for th...
Black Girl Code 2.0
46
May 20, 2021

Black Girl Code 2.0

This week we discuss Black Girl Code AGAIN!!! . In our opening chatter we discuss our week, husbands losing rings and the gas shortage. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss the Porsha Williams engagement. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she is about to marry someone that her cousin had a relationship with. Our other friend married her best friend's ex-husband. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated ...
Appreciate the Privilege
45
May 13, 2021

Appreciate the Privilege

This week we discuss the uber wealthy. In our opening chatter we discuss our week, raising boys vs. raising girls, if America is racist and the Big Willie Challenge. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss the divorce of Bill and Melinda Gates. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she about to marry into a family that owns a Fortune 500. Our other friend wants to know if she should still work after receiving a sizable inheritance. Be su...
Bridging The Gap
44
May 6, 2021

Bridging The Gap

This week we discuss the racial wealth gap. In our opening chatter we discuss our week. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss financial literacy programs specifically geared toward Black financial literacy. We are joined by our special guest, financial expert, Jacob Makoyo. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she’s thinking about co-signing for her boyfriend’s Tesla. Our other friend wants help with giving her twin sister advice abou...
Guest: Jacob Makoyo
Slippin
43
April 29, 2021

Slippin

This week we discuss addiction. In our opening chatter we discuss our week and the importance of etiquette. What’s on Our Timeline? We discuss the life of DMX. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend wrote to us because she thinks that her boyfriend is a functional alcoholic. Our other friend has discovered that her mother-in-law has a prescription pill problem. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come.Unt...
Why Is Your Name on This Chick’s Bills?
42
April 22, 2021

Why Is Your Name on This Chick’s Bills?

This week we discuss gender roles and responsibility’s. In our opening chatter we discuss the recent verdict in the trial of the police officer that killed George Floyd as well as the killing of, 15 year old, Makhia Bryant. What’s on Our Timeline? The Game’s week long Twitter rant about men providing for women. For Let’s Talk Through It we have letters from two of our friends. One friend is a “Tired [Wife]” and the other is a girlfriend who wants her man to take his name off of bills. Be s...
Whispers in The Church
41
April 15, 2021

Whispers in The Church

Nicole and Janine discuss National Geographic’s Genius: Aretha Franklin and how it displays some sad realities of the Black Church. In this episode they discuss the overlooked sins and the inevitable trauma that can be directly attributed to the Black Church. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feminist vs. Anti-Feminist
40
April 8, 2021

Feminist vs. Anti-Feminist

Nicole and Janine discuss the ongoing feud between Cardi B and Candace Owens, a self proclaimed anti-feminist. They explore what “feminism” really is. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sorry, Not Sorry Mr. Jaxn
39
April 1, 2021

Sorry, Not Sorry Mr. Jaxn

Nicole & Janine discuss the Jaxn scandal. Join the conversation as they delve into mate poaching and staying in a marriage after infidelity. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Supplemental Parental
38
March 25, 2021

Supplemental Parental

Nicole and Janine talk about blended families and the delicate role of being a stepparent. They discuss how being a step couple can affect a marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
But is it Cheating?
37
March 18, 2021

But is it Cheating?

Nicole and Janine discuss the viral TikTok from Spunky_brewstah (Nadiyah). Join the conversation as they discuss cheating and explore what is considered cheating and what isn’t. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Snatched
36
March 11, 2021

Snatched

Nicole and Janine discuss the rise in plastic surgery and the fall of the stigma associated with it. Join the conversation as the ladies discuss getting nipped, tucked and snatched. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Secret Stash
35
March 4, 2021

Secret Stash

Nicole and Janine sit down with friend of the pod, Asia Smith to discuss the concept of STASHING while dating. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Guest: Asia Smith
It Never Starts This Way
34
Feb. 25, 2021

It Never Starts This Way

Nicole and Janine sit down with Tyger McClendon, Founder of the Zollie McClendon Memorial Foundation, to discuss teen domestic violence, the signs, and statistics. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.