All Episodes

Party of One Please

Nov. 5, 2020

Nicole and Janine discuss masturbation and some unusual things that people can and have used to pleasure themselves.  Who needs liquid bandage when you have super glue?

Breaking the silence that hides violence

Oct. 29, 2020

Nicole and Janine are joined by clinical therapist, Alexis Young, as they discuss domestic violence and stress the importance of breaking the silence that allows it to perpetuate.

Guest: Alexis Young

It's Not A Broken Record... Get Out and Vote

Oct. 22, 2020

Nicole and Janine are joined by Crystal Carson, Vice President of Communications, Culture and Media Partnerships at When We All Vote. When We All Vote is a non-profit, nonpartisan organization launched in 2018 by co-chairs Michelle Obama, Tom Hanks, Lin-Manuel Miranda, Janelle Monae, Chris Paul, Fa…

Thriving Not Just Surviving

Oct. 15, 2020

Nicole and Janine sit down with Kerri Conner Matchett, Wife, Mother, Partner, Author and second generation Breast Cancer Survivor.  Join the conversation as the ladies discuss Breast Cancer from clinical trials and caregiving to explaining the journey to your children.

Pandemic Baby Boom

Oct. 8, 2020

Nicole and Janine talk about the celebrity bundles of joy born during the pandemic, the cost of raising children and babies pre and post marriage.

Friends with Tendencies

Oct. 1, 2020

Nicole and Janine discuss friendship, friendship boundaries and friends with "tendencies".


Sept. 24, 2020

In this week’s conversation Nicole and Janine discuss the monumental loss of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg more affectionately known as the Notorious RBG! They’re joined by friends Attorney Sacia Fowler and Attorney Lindsey Kanaly the Co-organizers of “March On”, Oklahoma’s Women’s March.

Say Her Name More than a Hashtag

Sept. 17, 2020

Nicole and Janine discuss the killing of Breonna Taylor and how the memeificatioin and lack of progress in the case highlights misogynoir in this country.   Say her name and hers too.  Say the names of all of the hundreds of Black Women who have died at the hands of the police. Continue to say thei…

Men and Marriage: Do we really need either?

Sept. 10, 2020

Join the ladies as they discuss Niecy Nash’s Nuptial that popped up on their timeline and talk through marrying your best friend and having babies without a man.

Two Pandemics

Sept. 3, 2020

Nicole and Janine discuss COVID-19 in the midst of a racial pandemic.  Join the conversation and find out  what you should really do if someone in your home catches COVID-19 and explore creative ways to social distance in small spaces.

Black Girl Code

Aug. 27, 2020

Nicole and Janine explore the idea of “Black Girl Code”.  Does Black Girl Code exist or is it just “Girl Code”?  Is it  ever ok to date your friend’s ex?  Can you maintain a friendship with someone who is dating your ex? Is ex swapping acceptable?  The ladies share personal stories as they  peel ba…


Aug. 20, 2020

Nicole and Janine discuss the 2020 Democratic Ticket: Joe Biden and Kamala Harris.  The ladies examine the praise and critique of  Senator Kamala Harris as she makes history as the first Black woman on a major presidential ticket. They even discuss the importance of the unification of the Divine 9 …

Wet and Gooshy?

Aug. 13, 2020

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Did your Dish Disappear?

Aug. 6, 2020

Nicole and Janine discuss Finding Freedom the upcoming book about Prince Harry and Meghan Markel and explore the intricate relationship between daughters and mother-in-laws.

Jesus and a Psychiatrist at the same time?

July 30, 2020

Nicole & Janine are joined by their friend Melissa Macklin Rector, MD who is a double board certified child, adolescent and adult psychiatrist  The ladies explore what mental health looks like in minority communities.


July 24, 2020

The Ladies of Oh That's Deep: Black Women Conversations give you a taste of the conversations to come.

Entanglement Cookies

July 24, 2020

Ripped from their timeline, Nicole and Janine delve into the murky, gray area of "Entanglement". A term coined by Jada Pinket Smith when she brought herself to the Red Table with husband Will Smith after her tryst with August Alsina.Join the conversation as the ladies discuss Jada Pinket Smith's En…


July 23, 2020

Nicole and Janine dive into the BLM pandemic and how it affects everything from interracial relationships to the way we raise our children.